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Paul Drayton Says He Felt Like a 'Nobody' During Marriage to Alan Carr

Paul Drayton, ex-husband of comedian Alan Carr, has written a book about his life as a gay man. He says he felt like a 'nobody' during their marriage and opened up about getting sober after a difficult 2022.

RainbowNews EditorialJune 30, 2026 — Verenigd Koninkrijk3 min read
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Paul Drayton is Alan Carr's ex-husband. He has written a new book about his life. The book is called Ride - Or Die Trying.

Paul says the book tells his true story. He wants people to understand what he really went through. The book is honest and personal.

In the book, Paul talks about coming out at the age of 17. This was an important moment in his life. Coming out was not always easy for him.

Paul also writes about his marriage to comedian Alan Carr. The two men were married for several years. Paul says he often felt like a 'nobody' during their relationship. He felt ignored and unimportant at times.

The marriage ended in 2022. It was a very difficult time for Paul. He says he hit 'rock bottom' that year.

Paul struggled with alcohol during this period. He had to work hard to get sober. Getting sober was one of the biggest challenges of his life.

Now, Paul is in a better place. He wants to share his story with others. He hopes his book can help people who have had similar experiences.

The book covers many parts of his life. It talks about love, loss, and personal struggle. It also celebrates his journey as a gay man.

Paul is now 54 years old. He says writing the book was a healing experience. He feels stronger and more confident today.

Alan Carr is a well-known British comedian. He is openly gay and has spoken about his own life publicly. The couple announced their split in 2022 after 13 years together.

Paul's story is important for the LGBTQ+ community. It shows that even in same-sex relationships, people can feel invisible. It also shows the power of coming out, staying true to yourself, and finding the courage to rebuild your life.

The book Ride - Or Die Trying is available now. Paul hopes readers will find strength in his words.

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